feat(monitoring): bot observability dashboards — Grafana + Persian RTL ERP page

Grafana (full use of the existing monitoring/ stack, per OSS policy):
- datasources.yml: BotPostgres (uid bot-postgres) over the shared network;
  grafana service joins 'shared' + carries the datasource env
- db_init.py: idempotent read-only role obs_reader (USAGE on schema public +
  SELECT on bot_traces/bot_trace_events; skipped when
  OBS_READER_PASSWORD empty; ALTER ROLE for rotation) + composite index
  ix_bot_trace_events_stage_time (stage, created_at DESC) — senior-engineer
  review applied with the column-name fix (event_type -> stage); (trace_id)
  already covered by the existing (trace_id, created_at) index
- dashboards/bot-observability.json: KPI row (real traffic, events, Jev/
  fallback errors, Jev p95, tokens, commits, archive guard), events/day,
  per-stage p50/p95, mention statuses (arbiter+fallback aggregates + legacy
  rows), DeepSeek arbiter actions, tokens/day, model-drift vs jev-1.13.0,
  user-choice A/B, STT + audio.enhance health, archive size guard
- dashboards/bot-trace-explorer.json: trace table + full event drill-down
  via the trace_id variable

ERP page (admin-only, Persian RTL, recharts@^3 for React 19):
- backend bot_metrics.py: read-only require_role('admin') endpoints
  (summary/routing/quality/jev/stt/traces + trace detail); aggregates count
  real traffic only (calibration/demo/chat_id=0 excluded)
- frontend BotMonitorPage at /bot-monitor (KPI cards, daily events,
  status donut, arbiter actions, user-choice A/B, STT/enhance tables,
  stage latency, tokens chart, traces table + detail drawer with payload
  viewer); entry link from the admin panel; MobileTabBar hidden there
- api.ts: typed botMetrics client section

Tooling/docs:
- tools/seed_observability_demo.py: deterministic demo traces (source='demo',
  every current pipeline stage incl. audio.enhance/jev.failure/arbitration/
  fallback/user choices) — excluded from real-traffic aggregates
- monitoring/README.md + bot/docs/DEPLOY-AND-MONITORING.md: setup, seed and
  rollback notes; alerts deliberately deferred (owner decision 2026-10-24)

Verified locally: obs_reader SELECT ok / INSERT denied; panels' SQL run as
obs_reader with data; datasource health OK; both dashboards survive a grafana
restart; endpoints 200 as admin and 403 without role; tsc + vite build clean;
page renders in-browser (admin session); bot startup provisions role+index.

monitoring/grafana/provisioning/datasources/datasources.yml

@@ -13,3 +13,22 @@ datasources:
     access: proxy
     url: http://loki:3100
     editable: false
+
+  # Bot observability (bot_traces / bot_trace_events) — read-only role, reached
+  # over the shared erp_shared network. Env vars come from the grafana service
+  # environment in docker-compose.monitoring.yml.
+  - name: BotPostgres
+    uid: bot-postgres
+    type: postgres
+    access: proxy
+    url: ${OBS_DB_HOST}:${OBS_DB_PORT}
+    user: ${OBS_DB_USER}
+    secureJsonData:
+      password: ${OBS_DB_PASSWORD}
+    jsonData:
+      database: ${OBS_DB_NAME}
+      sslmode: disable
+      postgresVersion: 1800
+      maxOpenConns: 4
+      connMaxLifetime: 14400
+    editable: false